love love love your article on plyaing in someone else's band. right on the money. may i suggest you add not badmouthing the leader on facebook/internet? i don't know how many time i see musicians complaining about a singer or her charts even though she is the one who signs their check. just don't take the gig or shut up.
oh thank you, but i'm not taking any advice on adding anything. i believe metaphysically, this topic was already covered in excruciatingly repetitive detail.